It is so easy to burst out in strong words or to talk to other people about our tragic situation and to indulge in self-pity.
激起我们言语激烈，或是不断向人诉苦，或是沉溺于自怜当中，实在是太容易了。Clinical help may also prevent the child from seeking out friends, lovers, and mentors who share her mother's difficult traits.
临床医师帮助也可能会防止孩子向朋友，爱人，和导师诉苦，分享她强硬母亲的故事。She had felt that the changing of the world, the ending of all that echoed in her father's moaning, was the simplest thing on earth.
她却曾经觉得要改革世界，要终止她父亲诉苦的话里所显示的那一切，是易如反掌的事。"Every time I ask Joe to pay back the money he borrowed from me, he sings the blues about all the things at home he needs money for. "
“每当我要乔还他借我的钱的时候，他总是诉苦，说他家里有多少开支。”He spent an hour staring at the melting ice that dripped from his refrigerator, and then went next door to complain to his neighbor.
他花了一个小时的时间注视着融化的冰从冰箱里滴下来，然后去隔壁跟邻居诉苦去了。While Sara felt Betty didn't hold up her end of the conversation, Betty complained to Steve that Sara never gave her a chance to talk.
尽管萨拉感觉贝蒂没有在她把话说完时及时做出回应，但是贝蒂却向史蒂夫诉苦说萨拉从来没有给过她说话的机会。So when a person pours out his or her troubles to a man, the latter hastens to give advice.
所以他们一听到有人，无论是男是女，向他们诉苦，就急于提出建议。Hi, I'm Eric, the eyes and ears of this place. Anything you need, tour guide, lunch date, shoulder to cry on?
嗨，我是伊瑞克，本校的万事通，你需要什么呢？向导、午餐伴儿，诉苦对象？。In his hours of despair she soothed him, listened to his complaints and gave him the courage to continue.
在他绝望的时刻，她安慰他，倾听他的诉苦并使他有勇气继续干下去。